On accessing Spirit messages, with both practicality and in reality
March 29th, 2026
I have gotten into the habit of recording my own connections with my guardianship, and then after an integration period, relistening to the recording and transcribing it into text. Guardianship, my group of caregivers, is a group of spirits that share counsel to assist me in my life (we all have a guardianship, and over time and practice, can access them with ease). As a medium and psychic, my closest ancestral advisors that I tend to seek regular counsel with, may not always be the sole providers of advice for my overall interests of soul (fulfillment, mission, purpose, etc.), but do share intrinsic help for my daily needs and care, as well as assist me with my continual healing of transgressions, or shadows that we may share. Many of the ancestors we may be in communication with, share valuable ways to heal shared shadows, fears, and discomforts from mishaps and ways we have acted that we may not be most proud of. What I have learned, is that instead of going to one ancestor for help, is to call upon the “conglomerate”, a collective voice that gathers from the many spirits, ancestral, elemental, and beyond, that are there to ensure your longevity in life, and care for your wellbeing in body, heart, and mind. They share that the simplest way to access this collated counsel is to welcome in your “Guardianship”. This allows a more coherent channel, or transmission, and has assisted in me moving through and supporting the healing of much of the shadowy shitstorms of my mixed lines, as well as even address and teach me on what I needed to face within my own psyche, and what may still linger and grasp at my own psychic skills and spirit guidance.
For as you see, Guardianship has taught me much in me accessing them this way, and I have found it has strengthened the efficacy and flow of receiving messages, while simultaneously teaching me how to better understand and access their voice, amidst the shadows and fears held in my own psyche and body. So, I proceed then to learn, while I heal, and while I receive guidance to assist me, all together, braided into a whole experience. They have shared much in how to support personal healing from intergenerational patternings, while also sharing how someone with psychic gifts may naturally then try to take on all the pains and difficulties from all the bloodlines they can access and connect with, which they share is a large and insurmountable task for one person. Guardianship has taught me how to focus through the many I can access, while sorting through the many shadows carried, and while learning better to honour my voice, my life, and my own essence, amidst all the multitudes of ancestors that I can connect, experience, and relate with.
Mediumship has been shared in many ways across cultures, and I have had to move through those within my mixed heritage, that ranges from the spirit practices and customs of the Scots, to the French, to the Spanish, to the Mestizo and indigenous of the Central-to-South Americas. Moving through the different spiritual gifts and practices of your lines can sometimes get confusing, and even may feel conflicting, so calling upon your Guardianship helps you clarify access and entry points (how you connect with Spirits), as well as how to transmit messages without altering words. Word altering can lead, at times, to mistranslations, even though it can be a natural course of action, when there may be certain shadows held within mind/heart/body that are currently linked to a word, or a string of words that may be shared with you. When receiving message from Spirit, decolonizing your mind is a natural and necessary occurrence, as well as moving through continually healing previous ways language has been used to harm. It has taken me a long time to share of these things, simply because I too have had to process many shadows attributed to this, for I have experienced much verbal, mental, and emotional harm. I have had to give myself ample space to grieve and rage and process the many emotions around the immense responsibility I feel in channeling, or receiving and sharing Spirit message. In this age, we have the ease and access of the interweb, AI, and copious amounts of data, that possibly share misinformations (“data garbage”) from previous channelings that now have been grooved into various search engines to further sort through and discern from. I felt such an immense pressure to not add to this data garbage, that I had to take time away from sharing Spirit message in a more public way. The shadows carried around your purposeful work in your lifetime can be vast, deep, and immense to move through.
Misinterpretations can come from many ways, and please know that usually they are not intended. We may have received message through our shadows, or things not faced within ourselves, and then bypassed the needed healing and integration time, and simply shared the message as a commodity. Think of someone who has not faced their white privilege, or addressed their proximity to power in our current society, and then received spirit messages that share of power, or strength to share to a whole society. Or, someone who hasn’t processed their entitlement, or ego around their psychic abilities, or access to certain Spirits, and then shares that their teachings are “truths” on what spirit shares with them alone, and not to many. The examples are many, but you get the gist. In the times we are in, there is an immense importance to us processing our humanness, our fallibility, which is not to be faulted, but simply to be understood as we continue to heal from the perpetual harms of a capitalist heteropatriarchal society. Over the years of healing, Spirit has advised me on numerous occasions to move from the practice of purporting that we are “better than”, “more enlightened”, or “more knowing”, etc. etc. simply because we have remembered how to access Spirit. There are multiple access/entry points for Spirit to share their messages across the globe, which means, there are multitudes of humans that are accessing messages from Spirit. The shadows of being a false prophet, or a charlatan, run rampant amongst many of our lineages, and so, it is essentially of the utmost importance, for us that carry access, to sort through our own shit, actively, and continually, to subtly and slowly shift the ingrained habits of possible generations of seers, spirit readers and channelers within even our own ancestral lines.
So yes, with gifts comes great responsibilities, accountability, and humility. Humility to acknowledge that yes, though we receive a message, that does not necessarily mean that we are the next “sermon on the mount”, or what I call, the “Jesus complex”. We can remedy this by exploring our relationship to organized religions, as well as to those held within our lines, that may range in many different puritanical ways of sharing information from spirit. There are so many shadowy feelings to move through, around being the next prophet, or even soothsayer, that may need to be processed and released. We, and our ancestors, are human, and can carry the same delusions of grandeur that we have heard tales about in many of our mythologies, the ones that have taught us of human foibles and fallibility. Accountability then swoops in, asking us how do we choose to share these messages, and why are we sharing them? If it came to you to share guidance with you, have you implemented it fully, allowed it to soften the edges of the points within you that it wished to address? Have you allowed the healing it came to share with you to move through you and assist some release, or shift within? I remember when I used to share direct channelings, for I was learning ways as a young psychic from a weird society of new age BS, only to discover that not many understood these channelings, and it wasn’t because there was something wrong with them, it was simply that I hadn’t learned yet that channels sometimes take years to implement and integrate and fully embody. Then, they can become more understandable, for they can then be shared through our words, grounded in practicality and reality.
Which then brings us to further address more of this responsibility. When connecting with Spirit to share messages for the general public, there is a lot of responsibility for limits and boundaries. To be aware of your shadows and what things you are actively healing from, and what tendencies you may have to try to please people, or to overshare and trauma bond. The level of attention and care is paramount, and it can be a fine dance, of sharing your gifts, while curbing the tendencies that come from opening so fully. Actually, my guardianship does teach the importance of limits, discernment, and how you do not need to open yourself as fully as many of us have practiced, which may lead to us feeling vulnerable and then acting from our shadows, or ego, again, as a protective measure.
So, when people ask if I sincerely believe that we can heal from ancestral pains, I share absolutely, but it’s not a linear or obvious act, shared in steps 1, 2, 3. It may take years, decades, even a lifetime, or more than a lifetime. It is a healing that cycles and spirals, as we access messages, integrate the messages into our body, mind, and heart, and then implement them into our lived reality, through practical measures that may include the possible alteration of habitual ways of thinking, believing, and enacting the grooved in ways that did not help us in releasing those binds and aided in the transgressions in the first place. In this practice of receiving messages, allowing for both integration and implementation time, we can then practice a greater accountability and rectification process. Meaning, rectifying what mistakes we did previously, while also refining our shifts in how we act and move with what we access from Spirit, which may then also ripple out beyond us, to assist us in shifting what’s needed, a remedy for the previous actions in us, our selves, as well as beyond us, in the blood lines that we carry. So, implementation is real, practical in healing from our own pains, as well as gently and simultaneously assisting us in addressing those that happened before us.
Phew. So grateful to share this with you all now.
Guardianship access is allocated in soul counsel sessions, bookable here. They are also whom guide the mentorship program, sharing ways on how to access, embody, and implement your psychic skills and gifts in ways that can be most helpful. You are welcome to read up on this program in greater detail, via this link here.
Please note: that even in receiving, integrating, and implementing these understandings for now longer periods of time, it still took some time and care to share of these things here (and some revisions!). If you wish for some further clarification on any points shared in this article, please comment below with your request, and I will try to further articulate what’s requested. I am in a continual state of learning, as I humbly honour and continue in my work of receiving and then sharing of these things, in my walk, alongside you, in this lifetime, as well as in the Here and Now. Thank you for the grace you give me.